You just have to love the adults in your life.  Sometimes when they open their mouths, the most negative words come out.  These words can do more damage than a punch to the stomach.  If you have people in your life that cut you down, just ignore them.

Sometimes the adults in your life don't realize how their words impact you.  Words can damage you for the rest of your life if you allow them to do so.  You have the power to delete the vile words that have been spoken over you.  Begin today so your present and future won't be tainted.

My niece's experience

My niece will be a senior in high school next year.  She's applying to colleges in Ohio and has begun to visit the colleges/universities of her choice.  I'm very supportive of her as are my mom and sister (her mom).   However, my niece's other grandma isn't that supportive.  She told my niece that she wasn't smart enough to get into the college of her dreams and questioned why my niece wanted to go to school far away.  I know the answer to the latter part of the question -- she wants to get away from certain family members.

My niece had a meltdown because her grandma, a family member, cut her and her dream down.  I immediately emailed my niece after I heard this.  Needless to say, I was absolutely livid and wanted to give the other grandma a piece of my mind.  After I calmed down, I realized that some people are still "asleep" and don't realize the power and impact of their words. 

I coached my niece and suggested she visualize herself at the college of her choice.  I gave her some affirmations to say so she could override and delete the words of the other grandma.  My niece is smart enough not to listen to this side of the family, but I wanted to ensure that she cleared out this negativity.

You are smart enough

If you have a strong desire to study a certain field or begin your own business, allow no one, not even family members to stop you.  When they say stuff like, "...you're not smart enough, you won't succeed, you'll never reach your goals, or there's no way you can do it," look at them and say, "....thank you for sharing."  Walk or run away from these people as fast as you can.  It's unfortunate, but you may have to limit the amount of time you spend with these people until you feel strong enough to be around them.

You create your life

What you can believe you can achieve is what Napoleon Hill said.  You have the power to live the life you want to now and in the future.  Limit the amount of time you spend around negative people.  In fact, it would be best if you stay away from these people all together.  Sometimes it's not easy to do because they're usually family members.  You can always excuse yourself and go to the bathroom or for a walk.  Clear you mind and picture yourself surrounded by a white light of protection.  Take a deep breath and realize that your family members are doing the best they can -- they're just asleep in their lives.

The next time someone tries to squash your dreams just ignore them.  Send them lots of love because they don't know what they're doing.  It's your life and you can be, do, and have anything you want.  You'll be required to take "inspired action."  When you do you'll create a beautiful life for you and that's what matters most!

Some teens may go to college or university and some may not, the choice is yours.  If you have a strong desire to attend college or university then you'll want to be prepared and make sure you meet all of the requirements.  This includes excellent grades, extracurricular activities, and much more.

Getting into your favorite college or university doesn't have to be a stressful experience.  Make sure you research the college and if possible visit the campus.  Speak to current and former students and ask them questions that will help you make your decision.  You could ask:  What did you like about the college?  What were your favorite classes?  How are the teachers or professors?  How tough is the school?  Asking these and other questions will help you make your decision.

Not every teen wants to go to college and that's okay.  You may decide later in life that you want to go back.  This is totally fine and normal.  When you're 18 years-old do you really know what you want to do with the rest of your life?  Heck, most people in their 40s don't know what they want to do!  Take your time to discover your passion then go to college.

Tips to getting into college/university

1.  Apply yourself in school and receive excellent grades.
2.  Make sure you're involved in extracurricular activities such as sports, band, student council, etc...
3.  Volunteer at your favorite not-for-profits.
4.  Make sure you know who to write because you'll have to provide a personal statement about why you want to attend the college or university of your choice.

Forget about stressing over your major.  If you know what you passion is then follow it.  If not, you may want to explore different career paths and speak to people who are successful in their career.  Ask if you could "shadow" them at work.  This means you'll go to work with them and see what they do five days a week.  It's the best way to find out if you really want to be a nurse, entrepreneur, accountant, veterinarian, web, graphic, or fashion designer, electrical engineer, biologist, or what it is that interests you. 

Getting into college or university doesn't have to be a tedious process.  You won't have a problem as long as you follow the instructions given by the college.  Remember that it's your life.  If you have NO DESIRE to attend a four year college or university then don't go.  Allow no one, even your parents, to pressure you into something that you're not interested in at this time.  You'll be wasting time and money along with the time and money of the college and university.  It's not fair to the other students who really want to be there or those students who didn't get in because you took their spot.  Be considerate and honor your feelings.  If you don't want to go just say so!  Good luck!

Teens, do you know what you want to be when you grow up?  If you don't, there's no need to worry about it.  However, you may want to give it some thought.  Whatever you choose, make sure it's your passion.  Don't choose a career because your mom and dad want you to follow in their footsteps.  Do what you want to do!

Some teens may be entrepreneurial.  This means that you'll be the boss!  You'll have most of the responsibility if you don't have a partner, but you'll receive plenty of tax incentives.  And, you get to make your hours, decide when you take lunch, go on vacation when you want, and make other decisions.

Tips to finding your career

1.  What makes you smile?
2.  What are your passions?
3.  What are your talents?
4.  What do you like to do?

Teens it's never too early to think about what you want to do when you grow up.  You may as well do something that you'll enjoy doing.  If you choose a career for the money, you may be disappointed and resent your career.  Choose a career that you'll love!