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            Who Else is Being Bullied by a Teacher -- Part II 10/21/2009
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            This is Part II of the blog about teacher bullying.

            Teacher bullying does happen to teens.  It's bad enough teens are picked on by their peers, they don't need to have a teacher doing the same thing.  Stop teacher bullying today by speaking up and reporting a teacher who is bullying you or other teens; this way other teens will not experience bullying.

            Take the First Step to Stopping Teacher Bullying
            The first step is to ask for a meeting with the principal of your school and your teacher.  You could confront your teacher alone, but it's best to have a third party present.  Make sure you have both or one of your parents present at the meeting.  This way you will feel at ease and will not be intimidated.  Be prepared to voice your concerns.  This is why documentation is important.  Make sure you also document any witnesses that would have observed any bullying by a teacher. 

            File a Formal Complaint
            Meeting with the principal of your school may be enough to stop the bullying.  The teacher could be put on paid leave or suspended without pay.  If nothing is done, the next step is to file a formal complaint.  Be sure to consult your school's rules and regulations on how to go about this.  Contact the principal if you cannot locate any policies and procedures on teacher bullying.  Continue to document any teacher bullying until the complaint is filed and something is done about it.

            Ask for a Transfer
            Your studies should not be disrupted because of a teacher's bullying.  It's not your fault your teacher has issues he or she has not resolved.  Asking for a transfer is your last resort if filing a complaint does not work.  Be careful not to feel as if your teacher won if you want a transfer.  Even if your complaint doesn't work, you can still seek legal counsel.  Before you ask for a transfer, make sure you report your teacher's bullying.  Follow the proper steps because you don't want to discredit yourself.   

            Love and Forgiveness
            Before you walk into school visualize yourself having a great day.  Send your teacher love even though he or she is bullying you.  The power of love can do wonders.  You can also choose to forgive your teacher.  Chances are the bullying has nothing to do with you, but what is going on in your teacher's life or what happened in his past.  It's unfortunate that your teacher's issues manifests its ugly head only to be taken out on you, but have compassion.  Forgive your teacher and release him from your life.  Remember that forgiveness is about forgiving the person NOT forgiving what he or she did to you and making it right.

            Teacher bullying must not be tolerated at any school.  Teens have rights just like adults.  When you are treated poorly or feel that you are being bullied, tell a trusted adult like a parent, another teacher, guidance counselor, principal, or assistant principal.

            Unfortunately, bullying comes down to a "he said, she said" issue so make sure you DOCUMENT everything that is going on at school.  Having a record will show the principal and teacher that you're not making it up.  Good Luck!
             


            Comments

            sammy z.

            10/21/2009 6:51:20 pm

            I know how it feels to be bullied by a teacher. It happened to me in 8th grade back in 1960. The teacher was a catholic nun. Then it happened again 2 years later in public school by a history teacher.I am almost 64 years old but I can still remember to this day how it felt to be bullied by these teachers. It is something you never forget.

             

            Rebecca

            10/21/2009 8:40:03 pm

            Sammy,

            Thanks for the comment. I to was bullied by a Catholic nun. I was in the 1st grade and would get sick before going to school. I hated going to school because of her. I wasn't the only one the nun bullied, there were other kids as well. I eventually forgave her (in my adulthood), but it was not easy. Needless to say, I'm not a practicing Catholic.

             

            olivia

            03/01/2010 8:56:36 am

            indian creek elementary lewisville,tx.
            is school bullying teachers

             

            Rebecca

            03/01/2010 9:18:55 am

            Olivia,

            Some teachers are bullied by their schools, but this article focuses on teens being bullied by teachers. It happens in schools across America. Remember, if someone bully's you, they have an issue and not you. Case studies have shown that most bully's have or are being bullied themselves. A person who bully's usually has deeper issues which they haven't dealt with in their life.

             

            katelyn

            05/17/2010 12:45:06 pm

            i witnesses my friend being bullied by our PE teacher. He kept calling her lazy in front of the hole class. and because of his bulling, one of the kids in her class was calling her names as well and the teacher did nothin about it. yes she is husky, but that is not because she is lazy! i weight almost 100 pounds than her and she is waaay more active than me!

             

            Rebecca

            05/17/2010 4:10:31 pm

            Katelyn,

            Thank you for leaving a comment!

            That's heartbreaking to hear that a teacher bullied your friend. Unfortunately, some adults don't act their age and they never will. Hopefully, you and your friend ignore the teacher and anyone else who calls you names. People like that are very insecure and they need to pick on people in order to feel powerful. Mentally send them lots of love, forgive them, and move forward with your life -- it will get better.

             

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