It's no secret that teens grow up faster than previous generations.  Technology moves faster than the speed of light, television shows are more dramatic and steamier, and advertisements for material items bombard teens at every turn.  Being a teen is not like it was back in the day.

Teens still face peer pressure and raging hormones.  However, the game has changed.  Many years ago, teens would never dream of "coming out of the closet."  In fact, some teens stay in the closet because of fear.  What would you do if you teen told you he or she was gay, lesbian, or transgender?  How would you react?  Would you still love you teen?  Would you disown them?  These are questions parents may want to ponder.

Loving your teen no matter what means just that.  You take the good along with the bad and heartbreaking and move forward with your life.  This is probably easier said than done for most parents.  Remember, your teen came through you.  Once they're out in the world all bets are off.  Sure, they share your same DNA, but that doesn't mean they'll be exactly like you.  They are, after all, an individual.

Perhaps your teen has a disability.  With love and support they can lead a normal life and be the best they can be.  In fact, most teens with disabilities do more than healthy teens!  I remember my mom's friend whose son had Cerebral Palsy. He held a job at the age of 16, bought his own van, went to college, got an apartment with a roommate, started his own business, and bought a house.  He's an amazing and inspirational person that helps people like him to succeed in life.  Don't write-off your teens if they have a medical issue.  You'd be surprised at what people can do when they have love and support.

Being a teen today is not like it was when you were a teen.  You had your issues to deal with, we all did, but it's a different world today.  Teens deal with local and world issues.  They are constantly bombarded with images in the media that can make your head spin. Love your teens no matter what because love is what they need the most right now!